The pig openner and its transition/ El openner del cerdito y transición

Im making this an English/Spanish post cause this guy Vlad just leaved me a comment in the Atom posts, asking for advice about how to transition using one particular opener, quite a good one i think actually, and his first language is spanish, and even when we are switching to english id like to help my spanish speaking friends so maybe im gonna write some articles in english-spanish from time to time, ok.

This is the openner;

"Hey guys, i was looking for a pet show where they can give me a credit, by any means you know any? I wanna buy a pig for my sister."

I think is a well delivered opinion cocky and funny opener, and for i can tell about Vlad´s post is working well for him, the question was what to do after talking about pigs, presents and stuff, this is a common question among novices, they tend to think that transition because of te asception of the word should be slow and pasive, but not necesarily, there is two main stream ways to go:

1-Link the conversetion from a word, but even when that word was in the previous sentence, you are adding a totally diferent subject, let´s say you are talking about the pig you wanna give your sister, then you throw a little comment/neg "Yeah, i wanna give her a pig cause she wants a dog, but she is kinda spoiled, like im sure you were when you were little" so you start from there talking about her childhood and start building rapport.

2-Just brind any other subject out of the blue, had you ever met one of those guys that speaks about this Jim Carry movie he just saw and suddenly he comes with something like the way the sheeps poop, and later on about Hawaiian volcanos? well... I do, i know a looot of this people, so just pretend to be one of them, but don´t exagerate, just drop your next subjec out of the blue, actually transition is one of the simplest parts of the games, just don´t loose any sleep cause of this.

This of course applies for any opener.

Español:

Bien, pongo este post en ingles y en español ya que "Vlad" me dejo un mensaje en los posts de Atom preguntando acerca de como transicionar, y veo que habla español, y ya que no estoy seguro de si hable ingles pongo el post en ambos idiomas, ya que como veran hemos cambiado a ingles ahora.
Vlad me comentaba que tiene un opener, que me parecio muy bueno por cierto y que le ha dado buenos resultados en cuanto a la receptividad del grupo, va algo asi:

"Hola amigas, estoy buscando alguna tienda de mascotas que me pueda dar credito, de casualidad conocen alguna? Esque le quiero comprar a mi heramana un cerdo"

Me parece un opener de opinion y cocky and funny bien estructurado, y parece no haber problemas hasta ese punto, el problema parece ser la transición, muchos novatos piensan que por el nombre, "transición" debe ser algo muy gradual, lo cual no es necesariamente cierto, hay dos corrientes principales como podrias hacer la transición:

1- Liga una idea con la anterior por medio de palabras, por ejemplo, si despues del opener empiezan a hablar de mascotas y cerdos, de repente tira una frase/neg, como esta "Si, le quiero comprar un cerdo porque ella quiere un perrito, pero como broma le dare un cerdo por malcriada, de hecho estoy seguro que tu eras asi de chiquita" y de ahi platica sobre como era ella de chiquita, y empieza a crear Rapport.

2- Simplemente mete un tema de la nada, ¿alguna vez has conocido a uno de esos tipos que te estan contando sobre la ultima pelicula de Jim Carry, y de pronto hablan de la forma de hacer popo de las ovejas para lugo pasar a los volcanes en hawaii? Yo si, muchos de ellos, solo actua de esa forma, pero sin exagerar, mete tu tema de la nada, de hecho la transición es uno de los temas mas sencillos, no pierdas el sueño por ello, ella ni se fijara.

Por supuesto esto aplica para la mayoria de los openers.

POKER

What makes a Pick up artist good? Nationality?

This is a question i get asked often and however Im not so sure to have the right answer, i mean, what could qualify to me as a good pickup artist may not be enough for someone else or maybe my standards are too high, whatever, first we had to define what´s good in general.

But why i start this topic? as you can see im switching languages, first this blog was written in spanish and now it turns to english this is because Seductor Alfa, the brother website of this blog is packed with info for the latinamerican community, and im sure there is quite a lot to learn from the english speaking comunity, after all that´s where all started right?

But not get me wrong, being latin have their advantages, first we already have the "pre-qualification" of being "exotic", and even when i think this is more a lie than ever before (I mean, just look how many latin guys there is in the united states and all over the world, exotic? i don´t think so...) another thing is that i had pulled my game out in a lot of places, Europe, United states, Latin America, Mexico, you name it, and i should say that adds a level of difficulty to play a latin girl, they seem to have their "values" more rooted, or at least their bitch shields and shit tests, that´s why i say the game in latin America might be good.

In the Other hand, American Players have this tendency of experimenting and take risks, something i must say i find kinda dissapointing about the Latin community, they seem to be overwhelmed by the Americans, granted i respect all the celebrity-pick up artists gurus and stuff, but we are all humans and we were all in some point AFC´s well, at least most of us, so i think that being a good pick up artist is much more than just the place you were born, is about developing your own skills, about growing as a person and about having the guts to change your life, to improve it, this are some points i think should be taken in consideration when calling "good" to a pick up artist.

-Quality (not hb6 and 7´s, just really good looking girls, that´s why we are here right?)

-Creativity

-Original

-Wide skill set

-Domain of one or several styles

-Accuracy

-Being able to play most of the time, let´s say stay in the right mind frame

-Blend all his habilities well

-Show himself as an Alpha male

-Leader

Among others...

But let´s hear it from you!

POKER

We are changing and we are reloaded!

Yeah baby! New image, new attitude, new ideas, everything, we have one life and we are gonna live it to the top, this site was abandoned for a couple of months, but not just because, i had a good reason, and that was to develop our brother web site, "Seductor Alfa" a social network that is growing incredibly fasta and having great participation by the latin american community with this Pickup stuff, well... as you can see we change the look of the site, and we have now new gadgets and stuff, please visit the articles that are gonna be appearing in the triond widget, this articles you could not find in this blog but in other websites, just as you could not find the articles on this blog in any other page (unless somebody take em and paste LOL) anyway, Poker pua Lifestyle has reborn, as you can see as well we now are speaking in english, why is that? Well, it seems more than enough for Seductor Alfa to take care or the Latin American community, id like to use this place to get in contact with all the english speakers Pua´s and players, if you speak both languages why you don´t visit Seductor Alfa?

http://www.seductoralfa.ning.com/

Im sure you will enjoy it, Well, this was just a little update, let´s get down to bussines then!

Im your friend Poker and I´ll be posting new articles and ideas real soon, hope to hear your comments right on!

POKER

What is peacocky and how to use it correctly

Peacocky is a word developed by Mystery, maybe the most famous pick up artists, presented in "The game" by Neil Strauss Aka "style" if you take a look of this guy, he might seem a little or well... excuseme, VERY extravagant, this is what he call "Peacocky" the term comes from peacock of course, and is based on the concept that this animals have this beautiful long feathers not for other reason that for matting, and when a female peacock notice it, the bigger, most beautiful tail is the one that wins, that being said, how to apply this concept to humans?

Well, dressing in a colorful maner, using jewlery, maybe an eye-catching hat, chains, anything that make you stand from the crowd, however, i must warn here that a lot of guys let themselves being draged by this concept and become clowns, literaly, they have so many colors, chains, feathers, fur things you could not believe it, granted some girls will talk to you like this, but most of them would just wanna make fun of you, now, if you are a really consumated Pick up artist, for sure you could pull that off, if you think you prefer a little more under the radar game, I would advice to just have one, two or maybe even three articles to peacock yourself, like a flashy ring, a nice t-shirt and maybe a cool chain, this would give you more than enough reason for a girl to come and comment on it, that is one of the reasons you are wearing it, another would be for YOU to approach to the girl, and once the conversation had been started you could talk just another subject.

So, keep it flashy but simple.

Another good idea to keep in mind with your peacocky and that i had been using lately with great results is to always have a meaningful story for your items, let´s say, i have this chain, and it shows the picture of a cruise-ship, most girls ask me about that, so i tell them this little story, which is truth by the way:

"Well, i was working in this cruise-ship company, where they treat you awful, you are like a slave there, i was working as a bartender, and my day could not had been worst that ocation, and we had Disco night, a.k.a the busiest night in my bar cause all the crew went there to drink and have fun, of course, i could not cause i was pouring drinks, anyway, there was this guy that worked at the shops, and he was rising his hand like to ask me for a beer or something and i was like "wait a second man!" and he kept going, and then again "I said wait!, can´t you see all this people here?!" and keep going and going, so finally i got to him and i was like "Ok man, what the fuck do you want? wait for your fucking turn" and he told me " No, man, i wasn´t orther a drink, is just that i know you had this crappy day, so i got you something to cheer you up" and he gave me this keychain that i turned into a necklace to remember me that even when you are having the most awful day, there are always a friend that cares about you"

Anyway, that is just a way to use your peacocky and storytelling skills, i hope you got a lot of ideas from this and keep it real!

Take care!

POKER

The keys to be a succesful leader

This article from Kino wear i just loved it, so im taking it for all you to read and ispire like i did.

A huge part of a man’s attractiveness comes from his ability to lead.
Will Smith is one of the most respected and loved actors in the entertainment business, and a true leader in his field. The reason why he is so successful is because he has the most important traits that that all great leaders have.
In this article, I’ll talk about three of these most important traits. Let’s get to it.

1. Being a Great Decision Maker
The first and most important trait of a great leader is a high level of decision making skill.
Destiny is not a matter of chance. It’s a matter of choice. Or in other words, our reality is simply a result of the decisions we have made.
“….Just DECIDE, what it’s going to be, who you’re going to be, and how you’re going to do it, just DECIDE, and then from that point, the universe is going to get out of your way, it’s like water…” - Will Smith
Are you someone that is good at making decisions throughout your day? Or do you keep delaying things that need to be settled, worked out, or acted upon?
I see more and more men who settle to just flow with the crowd without taking the time to decide what they want, wondering why they are unhappy most of the time. And when it comes down to making some decisions, they are busier thinking up excuses why they can’t do something, instead of trying to figure out how they can do it.
The man who isn’t constantly making important decisions in his life has no vision, and with no vision there aren’t strong goals, and without goals, there is no progress — only mediocrity at best.
When it comes to making an important decision, you should have no hesitation to get out a piece of paper and a pen, sit down with a cup of coffee, and spend however long it takes to work it out. It should be second nature.
When a man can lead himself in his personal goals, he can be an attractive leader in social situations and in business. When friends don’t know what to do or where to go, a leading man steps up and is the first to suggest something. At work, when everyone is waiting for orders from the boss, he thinks about the company’s most important objectives and takes the necessary steps to get everyone moving.
He shapes his reality by deciding what, why, and how things are going to happen.
“But what if you make the wrong choice or decision?”
Too many people are on the fence for way too long because they are afraid of making a bad decision. But the biggest mistake is always trying so hard not to make any.
It’s important to do as much of your homework before making an important decision, but it’s even more important to just launch and get things moving. Too many people get stuck trying to make sure everything is perfect before they take the first step. And people who never take the first step, never takes the second; getting no where near what they want.
Recently, I learned that a perfectly straight line does not exist in nature. Even if you put a straight line under a microscope, there are jagged edges that go in different directions. It’s only when you zoom out that it looks straight. Just like in nature, a straight line towards our desired destination does not exist either.
For example, when a pilot is flying a plane towards a destination, they never go in a straight line. They are constantly zigzagging onto and off the best course. The most successful leaders make the best choices they can with the information available to them, they LAUNCH AND GET GOING, and appropriately adjust their course as they go.
Is there any situation in your life right now that needs a decision? What have been holding off?
Today, try making all the necessary decisions you can before the day ends. Don’t leave anything to chance or delay any longer. Not only will you realize how many decisions you may be procrastinating on, but you’ll realize how much power is contained in a moment of choice.

2. Taking Full Responsibility
The second greatest trait a successful leader has is being able to take full responsibility for his choices.
A great leader always thinks about what the situation needs, not just his own selfish needs.
Many times our choices not only affect ourselves, but the people around us. When that’s the case we can’t wait for everyone to agree before we act. The best way to create results in this situation is to take full responsibility for whatever happens - especially if it involves lots of risk.
It’s hard to find great leaders today because nobody ever wants to be the one to blame if something goes wrong. The way we were raised by our parents and in school conditioned us to fear making mistakes and being rejected.
During stormy times, you have to be willing to steer the ship when nobody else wants to, or else you all might die.
So many necessary things that need to get done in our homes, businesses, and the world we live in aren’t getting done because people aren’t willing to step up to the plate.
It’s in our nature to want to feel safe and secure, but the only real security exists our ability to take action. One of the reasons why we’re the greatest species on earth is that we have no limit to what we can achieve. No matter what happens to us, we can do something to improve the situation.
It’s mostly the fear of failure that stops us in our track, but all of the most successful people I know have an unending list of “failures” under their belt. They wouldn’t be where they are, living their dream, if it wasn’t for all the “mistakes” and “failures” that happened along the way.
A great leader isn’t afraid to fail or make mistakes. And they don’t take what other people think of them too seriously either. They never act like a victim like most people do, blaming others or some outside condition when they are met with resistance.
They have confidence in the fact that if anything goes wrong - no matter what it is - they can quickly take action to improve the situation. This belief is what enables them to take full responsibility for what needs to get done. They lead themselves into action, take the load on their shoulders, and people inevitably follow.

3. Relentless Action Following Decisions
A lot of men are good at making decisions, and some even take full responsibility for their choices, but most quit at the first few signs of resistance.
The leading man consistently takes actions towards his goals until he achieves them. He works and works, changing his approach when it’s not working, and works and works at it some more. He does whatever it takes to win.
“… if we get on a treadmill together, either you’re getting off first, or I’m going to DIE trying…” - Will Smith
Countless studies have found that the most successful people are quick to make decisions and slow if ever to change them, where unsuccessful people are always slow to make decisions and quick to change them.
This sounds so simple but just look around and you’ll see so many people making a decision to do something and than quickly change their minds. And not because they found a better route, but because they gave up when it started to get a little uncomfortable or hard.
When successful leaders make choices, they do not RELENT. They’ll do whatever it takes to reach their goals, to live up to their decision.
It’s important to maintain integrity with yourself, and take massive action towards your decisions. For example, if you make a decision to go to the gym three times a week, it’s so important to honor your decision. The more you keep your word to yourself, the more power you will gain. To the point where if you say you’re going to do something, not only do you have complete confidence that you’ll do it, but others will trust you as well. This is monumentally important to becoming a great leader.
The most successful and attractive men out there, are those who can make the hard decisions, take full responsibility for their choices, and take relentless action towards their goals. They are respected in their line of work, are much more desirable by women, and loved by the people around them.
Every man has the choice to be a leading man. If you recognize that you need to work on one of these areas, quickly resolve to begin working on it today.
And don’t stop running.

Stay relentless

We are changing to english

Since we already have Seductor alfa, which i strongly recomend to you as a social network to get to know another players and pickup artists and it is entirely in spanish, this blog that had been abandoned for a while is turning to english, just to diversify a little.

I hope you enjoy it as much as i do and you like the english versión of the seduction.

Take care.

POKER

Bootcamp Acapulco - Abril 6

Instructor: Poker
Cupo limitado a 5 estudiantes
Lugar: Acapulco Gro. México
Fecha: Del Lunes 6 de Abril al Viernes 10 de Abril (Con opción también a continuar sabado y domingo)
Costo: $5,000 pesos

Interesados enviar correo a: pokerpua@hotmail.com

Registrarse en http://seductoralfa.ning.com/ en la sección de "Eventos"
Ahi se posteara el programa, se confirmará la asistencia y se acordara el metodo de pago, este costo es por inicio de operaciones, es un bootcamp elite y probablemente suba en posteriores bootcamps.